DOES SIZE REALLY MATTER??

Based on my friends page I wanted to talk about this. Now I know this is a bit much but I cant help but wonder how others feel about this particular subject. Does size matter?

My opinion is it does matter but each woman has a specific size they are comfortable with. There is no two woman in the world that can say they love a man with a "Hugh Mandingo" sized penis I know woman that prefer the itty bitty penis committee and that's also okay I suppose depending on the woman. I prefer width over length although length is definitely important but I don't want someone who is going to permanently destroy my body,  I do feel the perfect size is about 7, 71/2 and thick that's pleasurable for me.

 Although size can be good/ bad it still has nothing to do with pleasurable sex, it's the partner and his/ her experience that makes the size amazing.Stop me if I'm wrong but think about it a man with the most prefect size penis with no experience and or who doesn't think about his partner at all in bed, selfish and what most disappointed woman refers to as a minute man can only disappoint his partner so that blessing he has inside of his pants is just a waste. I think that we should stop focusing on size and more on how to please our partners, there is no two woman/ man in the world that likes to be kissed the same as the last person, so what on earth makes a guy believe that the next woman would want to be sexed like his ex? There are woman in the world that don't want to have sex at all there are woman in the world that like the idea of making love! but how can u know these things if you don't take the time to actually figure out what makes your partner tick!

What do you guys think I would greatly appreciate feed back on this subject, please comment, both ladies and gentlemen !Keeping reading Simplyebby for my outlandish out looks on life!!! 

Best I ever had

I woke up this morning and steered at my fiancee, how peaceful he looked and smiled to myself feeling so lucky to have found someone to love me the way that he does. There is very little people in the world that will experience what I have in life and finally find someone that will love you through it flaws and all. I am blessed, I have been defined and favored, my lord loved me so much that he brought me someone who would love me beyond my pain. I have to often remind myself that things aren't always going to be perfect though, even when you have the perfect one for you there will still be the moments were you cant stand each other.... but let that only be for the moment not for the life time.

I have never been happier there is so much I want to do in life and there isn't  a moment were I don't want to experience it without him. I believe that things will always be emotional roller coasters but if at the end of the day you find yourself only wanting to lay in there arms love them with all your heart, wake up to there presents in the morning and the only one you can see your life with marriage and children then you have found your soul mate. I have never thought of having children with anyone but him nor do I see myself having anymore children without him. he is my other half the love that is dreamed of flaws and all. I was scared to let someone love me the way that he loves me and had it not been for him being consistent and willing to fight for me I would have lost out on the best things in life. I am grateful I am loved!!

So today's Mother's day... another day to remind use how hard we work for the very little people we love dear to our hearts. I love being a mom but I think that mother's deserve a week instead of just one day. :)
 There is so many things about being a mom that makes this day so worth the hard work we put in. The smiles they give when you kiss there tiny cheeks, the hugs and moments were all they do is want to be with no one but you. My little girl is so special she not only made me a card that said " worlds best mom" but all day she tells me what a fantastic mom I am to her... that's special to me, although I do get frustrated as a mother all that I handle per day is so far from an easy job, but there is nothing in the world I want more. 


So to all the mother in the world .. Today is the one day of the year were we can relax and rep the reward of just being fantastic and phenomenal  to our child HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!! <3

Another piece of my mind

There is so many things in this world that don't always make since to me. The in and out of perfect and imperfections. For example love! I wish things were simply like a Nicholas Sparks book were there is an undying love and attraction until the occurring of old age; but that's not how things go now do they! We pride out very existence in finding this love that last forever, the cant eat, cant sleep, think of that person day in and day out kind of thing. Facts dont always agree with emotions and chemical balance, but "LIKE" sometimes feels alot like "LOVE" and confusing the two is dangerous.


I often wonder if there really is a such thing, that Notebook Noah and Ally love or the infamous Romeo and Juliet without the horrendous tragedy of course, but a love so strong that time just lays down and stands still for. My theory is that love just is, all these great minds that imagine these great sacrificial loves were there will be this all or nothing just doesn't exist.Most couple can barely stand the sight of each other after their 5th year of the so called undying love. I suppose some people will call me a pessimist.... I beg to differ! I'm a realist code for " says a whole lot of crab that although may have a logical point is still negative" and its not logical that one person can have an undying attraction to only one other person.


Fact: we are all predator  with that being said how can u truly ever tame a predator there is a natural animal instinct in our nature and that has nothing to do with love... rules of attraction. something I have went deeper in on one of my previous post. So thus what is love? Do we practice this saying just to mellow that animal with in us? Do we all have a divine need to believe in this method of self acceptance and if love out side of unconditional really exist then why is there attraction to another? these statements outside of predator  is just observation not fact! 


Just another piece of my mind from one blogger to the next!! keep reading Siimplyebby for my insight and outlandish opinions on life..... I love it!! 

Misery Loves Company

Famous Quote: to thee own self be true, This quote is so powerful, meaning that a person has to be and know their self in and out, learn yourself love yourself flaws and all, knowing ones self makes it impossible too be anyone else and live in the light of either harming or pretending to be someone else. although I do not think one can know themselves entirely there is always room for improvement and growth, but getting to know yourself and knowing what you want to give is the most important factor right? So before I began drilling the incompetence of some individuals I must ask this one question DO YOU KNOW AND LOVE YOURSELF?


I have played witness to some cruel and inhumane attempts for self authorization and although I am a third part with no particular involvement in the matter at hand, I often find myself annoyed with said persons.
Lack of self esteem, capable of doing the most ridiculous things to bring others to the exact miserable state. 
I cant see the amusement in trying to destroy someone else's happiness because your not brave enough to go out into the world to discover your own. it has been  said to many times that misery loves company; but the company you get is not always the company you want!


I want to be the person that says grow up this isn't high school or an episode of 90210 there is no punch line or or suspenseful ending , and just in case you didn't read Cinderella the vindictive spiteful ones always lose take notes. Its the most appalling  thing to watch weak people continue on destructive paths until they have nothing and no one lift in the world. What amazes me though is even knowing their wrong 99.9% of the time there is still this lingering want and need to believe  that what disaster they have made will eventually have some kind of warm, fulfilling out come. I beg to differ! You always know the ones, abusing some kind of substance to prevent from having to actually deal with themselves, Always seeking out attention from any and everyone around them, tries to justify there mistakes and put them off on others, cant take responsibility for there own actions, always playing the victim If this is you please go find something useful to do with your time!


Its like Will Smith said and I quote: If you are not in my life to make thing better, then you are just wasting my time!

Random thoughts

There is alot to having a healthy relationship. We look at the word relationship and figure its all about being with someone and making them happy, but you cant sacifice your own happiness to acoommodate someone elses, Despite the fact that this person maybe all that you want in one way, but lacks to care in others; This is still a big problem and moving forward with an unhappy relationship were one or both have unspoken issues will ultimately end badly.
I have had many experiences and I know that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, there will always be things that may upset you, or drive you up a wall but the one thing that it should never do is make you question the decision of building a life with someone.

I suppose this is the reason for many people having a fear of relationship, the sacifices you have to make and time invested. The thing about making sacifices is that they have to also benefit the person making them. The mere thought of having to structure your life around someone elses, having to think of more then just yourself these are the things that scares people and make it so much harder to make relationship apart of there future.

there should be magic in a relationship, moments were the person your with makes you feel so high so on top of the  world that you have no desire to come down. This should be the person you wake up for in the mornings and cant wait to fall asleep with at night. When you have found that magic the structuring life and sacifices just dont seem so important because this person makes you so happy nothing else exist. Magic is something needed in a successful relationship, someone who is willing to learn you better then you know yourself, Who is willing to meet you half way with all decisions you make. The smallest things create the biggest magic.  Some of you should take notes on this subject, most dont know how to make magic happen. I think its hard to be apart of something magical if you have to much of a hard time creating or finding the magic in something!! noone is perfect but there should always be someone who is perfect for you!!! if you dont believe in magic, you cant possibly believe in love.

THE FAMOUS 90 DAY RULE!!

There is a saying amongst the female community tthat has been popular for years  in order to tell if the guy she is dating is truly into to her, the 90 day rule! well supposively doing the 90 day wait period shows that he is interested in more then just his and her physical needs, but also in the connection that has grown between the two of them, well im sorry to say this rule like many others is a waste of time. It all depends on the intentions of the guy you are seeing not the amount of time you wait because honestly the male species know all about this rule and just because you arent active with them doesn't mean there isnt another girl who is doing it for you. A guy with no intentions of taking it to the next level with you and building a great relationship will never have intentions of doing so even with a trail waiting period. We all know as woman we know before the end of the first date if we will ever sleep with the guy were out with so there is know need to hound yourself with time.


My suggestion X out the waiting period, that does not mean go and sleep with him the first time you guys go out but putting restrictions on physical connection only makes it hard to really know what your feeling with him, instead you'll constantly think of what you dont want to happen and what you wont let happen before that time comes. Instead do things different from the past bad experience try new things. Like i have said before in one of my past post, we all know who we are dating before we take it to the level which most of us tend to regret intead of making things complicated learn the person your dating, it doesn't take 90 days to know the person your with.

Statistics show that the average american has sex on the third date, this can be both a good and bad thing depending on the individuals engaging in the act, most of which ended up in marriage and happy fulfilling relationships. This statistic proves that the 90 wait is nothing more then a restruction built upon insecurities and bad experiences. The better thing to ask yourself is are you choosing the right person to have a physical relationship with this is something to think about ,food for thought.  We tend to date the same kind of people and the results are always disappopintment. Sometimes its the kind of guys we date that make us vulnerable, judgemental, and bitter, making the dating world and sexual world a shark pool; Maybe instead of restruction you should try dating someone that isnt in your normal dating type. TRY NEW THINGS you will be surprised of the out come.

Thanks for reading in on my blog please continue to read!!! until next time