Thoughts

Typically ever girl has this ideal fairy tale kind of guy whom she wants to find, the average everyday guy just doesn't cut it, her expectations and standards won't allow her to just date anyone. Well that is for a woman that has already found herself and everything else is just to compliment her no completion necessary. Whats the issue with finding that right person? I propose this; not every expectation we have is going to be met! Woman or man Fact! You have to learn to position yourself for the impossible and allow the inevitable to occur. Most woman like myself whom are guarded don't feel comfortable just surrendering there emotions for any cause in fear of either losing themselves in love or being hurt by someone who can't love her the way see deems right. I still say a guarded woman is still an insecure woman hiding in her walled nature. Regardless of knowing who you are doesn't stop the possibility that you are afraid of pain, even the most successful, strong minded woman, have insecurities it's about channeling that and not letting it rest on your shoulders so that the praying mantis in you breaks apart possible relations resulting in a vicious cycle of loss of relation and self esteem.