There is alot to having a healthy relationship. We look at the word relationship and figure its all about being with someone and making them happy, but you cant sacifice your own happiness to acoommodate someone elses, Despite the fact that this person maybe all that you want in one way, but lacks to care in others; This is still a big problem and moving forward with an unhappy relationship were one or both have unspoken issues will ultimately end badly.
I have had many experiences and I know that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, there will always be things that may upset you, or drive you up a wall but the one thing that it should never do is make you question the decision of building a life with someone.
I suppose this is the reason for many people having a fear of relationship, the sacifices you have to make and time invested. The thing about making sacifices is that they have to also benefit the person making them. The mere thought of having to structure your life around someone elses, having to think of more then just yourself these are the things that scares people and make it so much harder to make relationship apart of there future.
there should be magic in a relationship, moments were the person your with makes you feel so high so on top of the world that you have no desire to come down. This should be the person you wake up for in the mornings and cant wait to fall asleep with at night. When you have found that magic the structuring life and sacifices just dont seem so important because this person makes you so happy nothing else exist. Magic is something needed in a successful relationship, someone who is willing to learn you better then you know yourself, Who is willing to meet you half way with all decisions you make. The smallest things create the biggest magic. Some of you should take notes on this subject, most dont know how to make magic happen. I think its hard to be apart of something magical if you have to much of a hard time creating or finding the magic in something!! noone is perfect but there should always be someone who is perfect for you!!! if you dont believe in magic, you cant possibly believe in love.
