Nice Guys finish last

I'm making this one for a gentlemen that spoke about it on me and my friends very popular chat room on Facebook.

I have a theory on this, its not that nice guys finish last its that they dont have the same confidence, confidence is the most important thing a person can have, especially if your looking for a relationship. Just like men woman can smell a man that lacks confidence and this woman will take advantage of the situation using you for all that you have instead of appreicating all the wonders of having a man that will love her flaws and all.
We tend to pride ourselves on being mister and misses right and forget that we cant always give everyone the same attention and love we give to the ones that are worse our time and effort. like i said before, as we date a person we learn things about them that tells us who they are, the way he/she  speaks, what and were the conversations will lead that alone tells you the intentions this person has, and the way they are with there parents. Yes I said parents how a person bonds with there families can chance the outcome of how they will bond and treat you. you must take all of these things in to consideration before considering a relationhip with a person. the problem is we always over look things believing some how we can either change this or that were different from the last person, well guess what your not, and trying to tell yourself you are is just lying and the only thing that does is confuse the situation. be true to yourself.
 Its not that a nice guy finishes last, its that he has been looking for the right nice girl in all the wrong places. keep reading my blogs and supporting me thanks