THE FAMOUS 90 DAY RULE!!

There is a saying amongst the female community tthat has been popular for years  in order to tell if the guy she is dating is truly into to her, the 90 day rule! well supposively doing the 90 day wait period shows that he is interested in more then just his and her physical needs, but also in the connection that has grown between the two of them, well im sorry to say this rule like many others is a waste of time. It all depends on the intentions of the guy you are seeing not the amount of time you wait because honestly the male species know all about this rule and just because you arent active with them doesn't mean there isnt another girl who is doing it for you. A guy with no intentions of taking it to the next level with you and building a great relationship will never have intentions of doing so even with a trail waiting period. We all know as woman we know before the end of the first date if we will ever sleep with the guy were out with so there is know need to hound yourself with time.


My suggestion X out the waiting period, that does not mean go and sleep with him the first time you guys go out but putting restrictions on physical connection only makes it hard to really know what your feeling with him, instead you'll constantly think of what you dont want to happen and what you wont let happen before that time comes. Instead do things different from the past bad experience try new things. Like i have said before in one of my past post, we all know who we are dating before we take it to the level which most of us tend to regret intead of making things complicated learn the person your dating, it doesn't take 90 days to know the person your with.

Statistics show that the average american has sex on the third date, this can be both a good and bad thing depending on the individuals engaging in the act, most of which ended up in marriage and happy fulfilling relationships. This statistic proves that the 90 wait is nothing more then a restruction built upon insecurities and bad experiences. The better thing to ask yourself is are you choosing the right person to have a physical relationship with this is something to think about ,food for thought.  We tend to date the same kind of people and the results are always disappopintment. Sometimes its the kind of guys we date that make us vulnerable, judgemental, and bitter, making the dating world and sexual world a shark pool; Maybe instead of restruction you should try dating someone that isnt in your normal dating type. TRY NEW THINGS you will be surprised of the out come.

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